Rantings And Panic Attacks

"If there is a solution, why worry? if there isn't one, why worry?"

One thing I've learned so far, is that when you're in dire situations, panicking is the last thing you should do. It simply brings out the worst in you. I remember the last time i flinched, over something minor ( i said something stupid, and got burned ) and what happened was a rather, amazing chain reaction. Everything that comes after, I  would screw it up, big time. As if someone had taken away my mojo--my game.

Still  not taking my word for it?

Try to remember the last time you were stuck in a problem solving case, and you start panicking, ( exam week, anyone? ) Did you solve it? if you did, was it during your panic attack? or after you've calm yourself? Like, "huu haa huu haa huu okay! you can do this!" then BAM you got the answer. Familiar? No?

Ever tried to unlock a door in a rush? gasping for air, cold sweat on your forehead, trying to fit the key into the keyhole, hands trembling. Ever been there? I have, took me a few attempts to get the key in, just to get half of the key stuck in the hole.

Well, sometimes the solution is just STAY CALM, if there is a solution to your problem, it'll come to you. Be calm, be patient :) keep it cool braaah~

Keeping calm under pressure is so cool. I envy people who are capable of such things. Maintaining performance and looking chill~ under pressure.

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*imagination ON*

At the local mamak stall, two friends, Din and Don, sitting together sipping kopi Radix, catching up after a week of separation,
Din : So how's it going with your "BFF" ?
Don : Not good, bro. He keeps pissing me off everytime.
Din : Humour me.
Don : You know what he did? One time...*rants on about his enemy*
---pause---
Now, Don would go on and on about his "BFF", and with every story he tells, he becomes more upset about it. It won't help enlighten his anger and hatred towards that guy. It just keeps building up.
So before you start doing so, start thinking;
when you speak of such things about him/her, does it make you feel any better?
when you do so, will it change that person for the better? (him not at the scene of dialog, of course)
and will it fix anything?

For all you know, you just might switch roles--you becoming the douche, and him being the victim. Sometimes, if wrongly timed, you might lose a friend (in this case, Din would be that person)
So think peopless! If it benefits no one, you either keep it in, or let it go--as in let go, not let it out. If that guy comes to you, and apologize, oh wow how it would burn you.
Someday he/she might be your best friend, or even your soulmate (ehehe). I mean, who knows, right?
As we would say "kecik-kecik gaduh, besar-besar kahwin." I think that's how it goes. hm

Nyways, stay positive braah~ and sistaaah~
Peace, from Hafidz (oh my gosh that rhymes)